If straight unearned power or glory ever made man or woman a king or queen in even their conscious thinking, it would be akin to a lottery winner not being a part of the nouveau rich/new rich and a lottery winner being old money for-real. With that I begin explaining that statement in this article. If power and glory appropriated and unearned “easily” made people really happy in life and existence, then instead of ninety-five percent of lottery winners being broke in a couple of years, we would have ninety five percent of lottery winners happy with their money and investing it well and smartly. But, beyond the lottery example, we go to the earned which no matter what lasts longer because of the fact that it was worked for, so there is even that sense of territoriality about that kind of power even when it is short lived. (And you were waiting for me to mention this:) Being born into power and glory does not make it earned, it was earned by forbearers, but not by the scion. So, that too counts as unearned power and glory. Sure you have your rare Henry Ford II who create great cars like the Mustangs and prove themselves. But more often indeed, you get John E. DuPonts’ and Paris Hiltons’ that squander and exploit what they were born into power and monetary wealthwise. I’m not going to call that glory. My exact point in this article, to get to it is that earned is always better than “free”, in fact, most of the time you pay the most for the “free stuff”. Some philosophers say the mind was given free, but you have to “pay” by using it with effort, alacrity and honesty to think. Napoleon Hill and Rene Descartes are the most famous for saying that kind of thing. So, a really good life, in other words is not free in that it takes thinking and action effort to create and live and “given” or “lucky” power rarely ever makes the genuine mind of a king or queen. So, considering that everything takes at least thinking effort to use properly, “free” never means free, ever.
So, now that I have communicated the facts objectively, or what I feel and know to be objectively, now to communicate my genuine subjective opinion on the matter which I think and know that you will find interesting and rather Socratic, and still pretty objective: Sure nature gives, but we all must use with effort to use anything properly. Life is hard, sure, proficiency makes it easy, sure. But proficiency does not even come free, it comes with concentrated paid effort through thought and consistent action. In one of my other articles, I quoted Kevin Trudeau’s four point chart about competence, in at first you do not know that you do not know, then you do know that you do not know, then you know that you do know, and then finally it is second nature, you know, but it is a fully ingrained habit-knit part of all actions in every way. Even that is a way of paying, becoming that proficient in a subject over a time-investment. So, more proof, in my opinion and reality indeed that “free” never means free, ever. Everything to become genuinely proficient takes a genuinely effort-filled investment of time and effort before it becomes easy in any way. It makes sense to me, I hope and am convinced it will make sense to you, that is why I am typing this in this article.
So, now, back to objectivity, and out of subjective opinion mode: Think about everything successful that you have ever done, and think about the time and effort investment that you have made into it, it was not free. It took effort to create perfection or success, didn’t it? Yes, and that admittedly is a universal yes on anyone’s part.
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